If the thought of having sex makes you feel uncomfortable and weird in a bad way, then you need to work on your bedroom strategies.
Your sex orientation may not work with all your partners and some times you will have to implement new sex styles.
The only preparation needed before sex is emotional and body preparation that is arousing your partner, which guarantees satisfying sex.
1. Sizzling missionary/ Missionary position/Missionary style
It is one of the methods used to have sex by starters. It is all about rhythmic ups and downs. You can create a new experience of the classic missionary. In place of widening your legs, have your partner’s legs straddle your body, permitting for mutual genital touching. This becomes sweeter with the connection you have with your partner.
2. Sitting on a pillow top
Place a pillow underneath your pelvis for support. Bend your knees, bring your pelvis upward, and spread your legs apart enough to allow for thrusting. This method allows you to control the depth of penetration and it promotes stimulation.
3. Riding into the sunset
Be in control of what happens. This position is ideal for some cozy times because it allows for intimate kissing and eye gazing, and permits you to create the rhythm you most enjoy. Not only will you be able to position your clitoris to your liking and increase sexual pleasure, but also you can rock your pelvis back and forth to create a comfortable rhythm.
4. Lean into me
This a face to face position. One of you leans on the wall while facing each other one, choose who will hold the other’s butts, and hook their leg around the other person’s leg for support. By rubbing your clitoris against your partner’s genitals, this creates a comfortable rhythm where you’re able to move your body closer or away.
5. Side cuddle
This involves allowing penetration from behind. When you’re facing your partner, you can take the lead of your sex toy or the penis shaft and create the angle and thrust you desire. In the rear entry position, use your buttocks to control the speed and have your partner remain still, you can move at your own pace and control the depth of the penetration.
6. The duo
Choose your position according to what makes you feel better and satisfy you. Use whatever method you that arouses you feeling. Allow you, partner, to touch your sensitive parts and help you reach the climax. Creating this duo sensation can be dynamite.
7. The rabbit
Sex toys are not only for solo players but also a duo, get your sex toy ready, and use it with your partner. Use the different vibration settings to increase your pleasure or tease one another. Hold back your orgasm till you can no more. Before using any sex toy agree with your partner.
8. The boycott/69 position
If you are experiencing pain during penetration, you should stop for a while and exercise.
During this break, you can try 69. Simply, go on your back and have your significant other’s mouth face your genitals, while you find your mouth to theirs. Take the time to enjoy exploring each other.
With a sex-positive attitude, an open mind, lots of sexual communication, and enough lube, you’ll discover that there are many ways to sex-explore and sex-experiment with your significant other.
Note: Before you try new sex techniques, always keep in mind the best type of sex is where you share an emotional bond and the desire to have sex is mutual.
9. Reverse cowgirl position/Cowgirl position
In this style, the girl is in the top position. Reversed. As in, while in typical cowgirl, you may face your partner, but in reverse cowgirl, you face the opposite way (toward their feet). Most often, reverse cowgirl is done while seated or on your knees.